Another Vision

I am a little bit tight these holidays, but I believe it would be very helpfull to all of us, all singles and married ones to follow up my last mail subject not just here but in your blogs too, I will write about it more later.
but as I wrote: Guess what??

She is vegetarian, I eat meat
She hates greasy food, I love greasy Makarouni and Kabab
She loves shopping, I hate it
She is white and fair, I am, ammm, dark, typical Irani
She loves changing pampers and nappies, I hate doing that
She believes this is one of those things make you close to your kid, I say no way, excuse me honey
She is more American, I am more Irani
She listens mostly English songs, I listen mostly Irani
She sits long hours reading books, I sit long hours in front of PC
She hardly talks about others, I talk a lot
She loves movies form 16th century, I love scifi. movies
She tries to match her clothes when she goes out, I just take the cleanest one
She is here with all her family, and I am not
She grew up here, I grew up there
She is very calm, I am always in rush
She is very good in finding addresses, I am always lost if she is not around
She thinks before any talk, I !!! also try to do the same
BUT:
She loves me, and I love her
She is my wife, and I am her husband
when I am down she comes with phone pass it to me and says it's your Mum on the phone
she gives me space when I want to be alone and I let her too when she needs it
She never asks me why? but if you like to talk about it
she is always there if I need, and I am always away from home somewhere else on this planet
We talk if there is a problem and we think what is the best for the whole family (3+1) when we discuss things
She is a brave lady, much more than me!!
She is one of the best, and I always think whatever I do for her is not enough
She thinks I am a good father and husband and devoted to my family
She and Me try to do our best for people who knows and understand "Love"
She and Me try to be helpfull to others
She and Me wish to provide education opportunities for all kids of our origin country
She and Me believe that if we consider others rights, they do the same to us, if not we leave them alone
We think if our family says something to any of us, that would be fair and good as long as it benefits all our small family
We think we should respect our past, do our best at present and enjoy it and think nice about future
Before anything we try to be a good friend for each other

I was listening to music of Arash blog while writing this.

My son has just once and all visited Iran. When we took him home, he got a flu, my wife could not manage him at home and asked me to take him to hospital due to high fever. They gave him a shot there which made him cry for a while.
Now if anybody ask him
Have you ever been in Iran? he says "yes"
and if you ask him "did you like it?" he would say:
(he points his finger towards his BASSANE MOBARAK and says:
Injaye adam mikh mizanan!!!!!!!!!

It is interesting how in any aspect of life, at any age, the first impression is very very important, be careful about that. In your new job, meeting people for first time, or etc.

You are what you say
you are what you write
you are what you eat
you are how you eat
you are how you talk

if you say something you have to consider that everything has a consquence which you should accept it, are you ready for that? if not why did you say that?

last time I was in Iran I noticed many just say something for the sake of saying it, they do not think about what they gonna say, a little bit taste it in their mouth and then spit it out!! and then they do not accept the consquence of what they said. Why they are like this I do not understand. People! either dont say anything and if you say then consider its consquences.

Night

Conrad is a colleague of mine joined me on our way from Florida to Georgia. Lots of reports and talks and presentations these days. Busy busy!!!
Conrad: Did you go to love hotels in tokyo?
Me: no, of course not you know me
Conrad: you kidding me?
Me: why should I? I see them but never used them as it supposed
Conrad: So what the hell did you do all these times in there?
Me: I set up a blog? and I put some add in it so people click and I make money and I send them to few kids back in Iran for their education.
Conrad: How much money did you make up to now?
Me: 2.30 $
Conrad: laugh laugh laugh (made me carzy)
Me: Shut up, well and I laugh laugh laugh
Conrad: explain me about these kids support
Me: blah blah blah
Conrad: Hmmmm, My wife and I may join you for 2 more kids, how nice

See, now 2 + 2 = 4
can I build few school one day in my life in Iran? or support 10000 kids!?!?!
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Me calling home:
Son: Hello
Me: Sallam
Son: Hi
Me: I canot hear you
Son: Sillam
Inahm ba in lahjeye dehatish marou koshte
Me: put your mum on the phone
Son: Tu Koojaiee? (ba lahjeye fogoalde dehati bekhunid)
Son: Bia pishe man, man strong shudam, bia Bijangim!!!!!
BANG, (he JINGID ba telephone)